As a woman, and a woman in the latter half of her forties, I find my self trying very hard to defy age. Is it human nature? Or is it my nature? Today at lunch, Jeff asked me how I stay motivated…..I should probably rewind for a moment.
Today, I woke up at 4:10am, and rather than fluff my pillow and roll over for another hour, I stumbled quietly out of bed, grabbed my “daylight” machine and went into the kitchen to begin my morning routine. By 6am, I was already on my bike mashing out the watts, dripping wet with sweat, and downing Scratch to Eric Church’s new album. By 8:15, I was done with my 75 minute bike session and 6 mile run, and wondering which part of my schedule I would accomplish first.
By 11:30, I was ready for lunch, Jeff had called and we met up at our favorite lunch spot The Street. Our lunch conversation turned to motivation and what propels us? Me?
My knee jerk response was, “what else am I going to do?”
But on the drive home I started to think about what drives me? What motivates me? Why do I do what I do for countless hours, many of which are lonely. I was alway active after college, I never really fell into the mom only mode, I had to be doing something. I owned every apparatus one could to stay active with the girls. I had the baby jogger, the Kelty back back, then the double baby jogger. There were hikes, runs (aka jogging – silent J) and power walks with the girls; but it wasn’t until Jeff signed up to do a duathlon in 2001 in Rye, NH, that I took the “chance” and signed up to do the 5K.
It’s funny when you are competitive by nature, and you are given the small taste of “glory” it can spark a lifetime of change. I received a small medal that day in June 2001, and it prompted me to sign up for many more 5ks over the years…and in 2004 I did my first triathlon, at the Danskin All Women’s Tri. Wow, have I transformed.
So back to defying age. I look at the image I try to maintain. I eat healthy, take copious amounts of supplements, get the proper rest and recovery, and try to be a role model not only for my girls but for the many women in our community and beyond, who too, will take that “chance” and sign up for a 5k. Am I defying age, absolutely. But age is only a number on a calendar, it doesn’t reflect how we feel about ourselves and our environment. There are days when I feel ridiculously old, when I have to hold the cell phone so far from my face to read the text message my daughter just sent me about staying after school. Then there are days when I feel like an absolute teenager, riding my bike down a crazy steep hill and doing it with confidence! It also helps when two of your best friends are 28 years old.
But as I look at how I transformed my body since 2001, almost 14 years later, I know I have defied age. I’ve added years to my life by the choices I have made to be healthy and strong, both physically and mentally. And while I don’t always agree with the face staring back at me in the mirror, I respect and treasure every line there is….each one holds a story.
So here you have my defying age moment from this past weekend….
*2001 38 2/10 F3034 24:45 7:58 KATHLEEN DONATELLO 32 F YORK ME *2013 26 1/15 F4049 21:31 6:56 KAT DONATELLO 45 F ELIOT ME